FORM
5.5 Stipulation for an Agreed Order of Custody
IN THE COURT OF COMMON PLEAS OF
__________________ COUNTY, PENNSYLVANIA
CIVIL ACTION LAW
PLAINTIFF
No.
CI -
vs
DEFENDANT
STIPULATION FOR AN AGREED ORDER OF CUSTODY
AND NOW, the parties,
by and through their attorneys, stipulate and agree as follows:
1. The parties shall have joint legal
custody of their minor child, legal custody being defined as
the legal right to make
major decisions affecting the upbringing of the child, including but not
limited to medical,
religious and educational decisions. The parties agree to discuss and consult
with one another on these
decisions with a view to adopting a harmonious policy calculated to
promoting the child's best
interests.
2. Each party has a right to be kept
informed of the child's educational and medical development
and shall have a right
of access to the child's educational and medical records. Each party shall
be entitled to complete
and full information concerning the children from each other and from
any doctor, dentist,
teacher or similar authority, and to have copies of any reports, notices or
other communications given
to either party as a parent. Within ten (10) days of the date of this
stipulation, Defendant shall
provide Plaintiff with a complete list of all the children's teachers,
medical care providers,
close friends and the friends' parents, along with telephone numbers and
addresses for each.
3. Each
party shall notify the other of any matter relating to the children which could
reasonably
be expected to be of
significant concern to the other party.
4. Defendant
shall have primary physical custody of the child.
5. Plaintiff
shall have partial physical custody of the child, using the following four-week
rotation cycle:
A. Week One: Plaintiff shall have partial physical custody of the
child from Friday night at 6:00
P.M. to Sunday night
at 7:00 P.M., if the child has school the following Monday, or 9:00 P.M. if
the child does not have
school the following Monday. Week one in the parties' four-week
rotation cycle shall commence
on __________________, 20______;
B. Week Two: Plaintiff shall have partial physical custody of the
child from Friday night at
6:00 P.M. to Saturday
night at 7:00 P.M.;
C. Week Three: Plaintiff shall have partial physical custody of the
child from Friday night at
6:00 P.M. to Sunday
night at 7:00 P.M., if the child has school the following Monday, or 9:00
P.M. if the child does not
have school the following Monday;
D. Week Four: Defendant shall have
sole custody of the child for the entire weekend. After the
fourth weekend, the parties
shall have completed the four-week rotation cycle, and shall begin
again with Week One.
6. Plaintiff shall have partial
physical custody of the child for not more than four (4) weeks
during the summer; provided
that Plaintiff spends no more than two (2) consecutive weeks with
the child during the
summer, and gives notice to Defendant of [his/her] exact plans for summer
vacation with the child no
later than __________________ of each year.
7. With
respect to holidays, Plaintiff and Defendant shall alternate spending New
Year's Day,
Memorial Day, July
4th, Labor Day, and Thanksgiving with the child beginning with Plaintiff on
[state
holiday], 20______. Plaintiff shall have the child on [Father's/ Mother's] Day.
Whenever a
holiday falls on a Thursday
before, or a Monday after, one of Plaintiff's weekends with the child,
then the child shall stay
with Plaintiff through that Thursday or Sunday night, whichever the case
may be. By way of
illustration, if the child is to spend Thanksgiving with Plaintiff during one
particular year, then the child
shall spend Thursday night with Plaintiff should the ensuing
weekend be Plaintiff's in
the ordinary course. In the event of a conflict between a holiday and
either one of the parties'
weekends, the holiday shall take priority. Finally, with respect to
holidays, the parties agree
to return the child at a reasonable hour, keeping in mind [his/her]
school schedule and other
activities.
8. The
child shall spend Christmas Eve through Christmas Day at 12:00 noon with
Defendant,
and shall spend
Christmas Day at 12:00 noon to December 26 at 12:00 noon with Plaintiff.
The remainder of the
child's Christmas vacation through New Year's Day shall be shared
equally by Plaintiff and
Defendant.
9. The
parties recognize that the __________________ area provides the child with a
familiar
and congenial
environment in which the child possesses significant relationships with
friends,
relatives, teachers and
classmates. Therefore, neither party shall remove the child from the
__________________ area, or more than twenty (20) miles from their present
residences, for
the purpose of changing
the residence of the child to a location outside the ________________
area, or for any other
reason, without the express written agreement of the other party, or with
leave of the Court of
Common Pleas of __________________ County, Pennsylvania obtained
prior to removing the
child and not obtained on an ex parte basis. If either party desires to
establish a residence with the
child more than twenty (20) miles from the present residences, he
or she shall give the
other party at least ninety (90) days written notice in advance of the
proposed move and all
information requested by the other party about the proposed move. If the
parties are unable to agree
about the proposed relocation, the Court of Common Pleas of
__________________
County, Pennsylvania, shall have exclusive jurisdiction of the parties and
the child to enter an
appropriate primary custody/partial custody Order. Neither party shall
relocate with the child
unless and until such Order is entered by the Court of Common Pleas of
__________________
County.
10. Each party shall have reasonable
telephone and mail access to the child when in the
custody of the other parent.
11. Neither
party shall impair the other party's right to custody or interfere with the
other
parent's custody when the
child is with that parent.
12. Neither party shall disparage the
other party in front of the child, attempt to alienate the
affections of the child from
the other party, or allow third parties to attempt to alienate the
affections of the child from
the other party.
13. The parties shall not involve the
child in any of the disputes concerning him/her, including
but not limited to
financial matters.
14. Day-to-day decisions shall be the
responsibility of the parent having physical custody at that
time. Additionally, the
parent having physical custody of the child at the time of an emergency
shall have the right to
make any immediate decisions necessitated by the emergency. However,
that parent shall inform
the other parent of the emergency and consult with him/her regarding the
emergency as soon as is
practicable. If either parent should be unreachable at their office or
residence, then that party
shall provide the other party with the necessary information to facilitate
notification of an emergency.
15. The foregoing
schedule is based upon Plaintiff living in __________________ and
Defendant
living in __________________. The relocation of either party from their current
residences shall form a basis
for change of this custody schedule and no such relocation shall
take place without the
non-relocating party's express consent or court order after a full hearing.
16. Each party shall
promptly notify the other of any travel plans, travel arrangements, and any
delays which might affect
the custodial arrangements. Each party shall provide the other party
notice reasonably in
advance of any scheduled trip with an itinerary including names of hotels or
residence addresses and
telephone numbers for the applicable periods of time.
17. This Stipulation
shall be entered as an Order of the Court.
__________________
Plaintiff
__________________
Defendant
BY THE COURT:
Date:
______
__________________
J.